Minggu, 31 Januari 2010

How to say "I Love You"


64 Ways to Say "I Love You":

Don't compare to anyone.
Be courteous at all times.
Embrace the present moments without fear or guilt.
Live by the Golden Rule (Do unto others as you would have them do unto you).
Give your full attention when talking.
Become their biggest fan and cheerleader!
Toast each other over breakfast or dinner to say I love you.
Tell them how they bring love to your life.
Laugh about kids quotes on love or events.
Talk about your day during mealtimes.
Read books aloud together.
Say you're sorry.
Recall good and bad memories.
Let go of the past to say I love you.
Do nothing together.
Encourage health in all its forms.
Trust your partner enough to cry together.
Act silly together.
Be lavish in praise.
Ask questions about opinions, feelings, thoughts.
To say I love you, forget about labels.
Encourage adventures and risks!
Show your joy when they come home.
Bake cookies.
Leave stress at work to say I love you.
Use flannel sheets in the winter.
Solve problems together - such as crosswords or Suduku.
Show your gratitude for them.
Be a good sounding board.
To say I love you, take pride in them -- and show it.
Compliment them in front of others.
Spend time with them.
Listen.
Ask for hugs and kisses.
Take vacations together.
Tell the truth to say I love you.
Use pet names to say I love you.
Practice self-acceptance.
Hunt for treasure together.
Be interested in their interests.
To say I love you, let go of jealousy.
Accept their weaknesses and flaws.
Ditch work or responsibilities to play with them.
Be yourself.
Share chocolates, ice cream sundaes, milkshakes.
To say I love you, ignore slights.
Pray or meditate together.
Practice forgiveness.
Watch classic movies together.
Leave notes or send letters.
To say I love you, buy a "for no reason at all" gift.
Don't gossip or judge.
Give the benefit of the doubt to say I love you.
Give space when they're in a bad or sad mood.
Learn something new together.
Go dancing. .I prefer SALSA.[visit www.onlinesalsa.com]
Keep your promises to say I love you.
Make them laugh.
Consider their feelings.
Learn ways to rekindle the romance.
Hide a treat in their lunch.
To say I love you, make home a fun place to be.
Let them make their own decisions.
Say what you mean when you say I love you. Say why.

Saying I love you takes work and making your relationship stronger does take work. It's hard to be honest, and it's hard to accept the consequences of your honesty and authenticity. It takes time, energy, and commitment to stay connected through all the problems that life and people bring. It can be painful, aggravating, and scary to stick it out through all the ups and downs....but the alternative is worse.


By:
Hassan Mahmud Tanvir

Selasa, 19 Januari 2010

Ten Bad Dating Habits for Women


Ten Bad Dating Habits for Women

You believe your potential partner will fix your life.

Many women like to believe that they’re going to stumble upon a millionaire and will be set for life. Once this mind set is gone, you’ll start to see an array of potential men who may not be rich, but can satisfy you beyond money.

Don’t go for the same type of guy.
If a past relationship with a certain type of guy failed, then there’s a good chance it won’t last again. So even if you’re drawn to that type of guy, look elsewhere for a while.

Lower your expectations.
We all have our dream man, but in order for us to find ‘the one’ we’re going to have to lower our expectations and realize that guys are not perfect and neither are you.

Don’t be stuck in the past.
Many women tend to dwell on the past and try to rehash it in the present, especially in guys. No two men are the same, so don’t treat them the same.

Have an open mind.
Your partner may say and do things that may irritate you and I’m sure you do some things that annoy him. Keep an open mind and let the little things roll off your back.

Arguments are normal.
Arguments scare people, especially when the relationship is fresh. Don’t let arguments tear apart your relationship. Talk them out rationally and get to the root of the problem so it doesn’t happen again.

Value your partner.
Show up on time, keep your promises, be interested in what he has to say and what he does. Often times, women have the tendency to think that guy’s hobbies aren’t important. If they’re important to him then they should be important to you.

Keep communication open.
Nine times out of ten, lack of communication is what kills a relationship. Normally when you think of lack of communication you think of the guy, but women have a hard time as well. Talk about your feelings.

Surprise him.
Guys love it when women take control and surprise them. If you do something nice for him out of the blue, he will truly appreciate it and you’ll feel satisfaction knowing that you made your partner happy.

The clock is not running out.
Women have the mind set that time is always running out and they must find their ideal man ASAP. You have all the time in the world. There is someone who will love you for the rest of your love. Sometimes we must be patient to find ‘the one’, and you have plenty of time to find him.

Breaking these bad habits will take time. Nothing happens over night. Be patient with yourself and do the best you can to break these bad habits. As long as you continue to improve yourself, you’ll find ‘the one’ sooner than you think.

Sabtu, 16 Januari 2010

Romantic Surprise Ideas



Romantic Surprise Ideas

www.atozrelationship.blogspot.com cares about your relationship. I am happy to offer these tips on how to prepare a romantic surprise for your lover. We hope you like these ideas.


* Surprise them with breakfast in bed.

* Surprise her with dinner and dancing. (On dinner and a movie date night)

* Keep your relationship full of surprises.

* Surprise your lover with a deep shoulder massage while they are at the computer, doing tedious work.

* Surprise her by handing her the remote.

* Give him little surprises where he least expects it.

* Surprise them often with different comments. (Like telling them that you don't THINK you love them, but you KNOW you do...)

* If their favorite sports team is in town, surprise them with two tickets.

* On your first anniversary, surprise them with a limousine ride for the night. The two of you can cuddle in the back just like you did on your prom night and enjoy a night on the town.

* Fulfill one of their teenage fantasies: borrow or rent a convertible and surprise them with a moonlit ride.

* Surprise your partner by unexpectedly doing something for them that they dislike doing.